Quirks, Flirts and Fluff That Works

I have to be completely honest with you… this is wild right? There are a few reasons as to how you found your way here. No matter how, I’m so happy you found me. I set out to fully live out my purpose… so here I am!

I’ve always known that I should share my story. Not that I’m any more special than anyone else… in fact because I am NOT more special than anyone else! I just happen to be the person who is willing to say all the things that we were taught to keep quiet. To say the things that ladies just don’t talk about. No one wants to hear about being quirky, flirty AND fluffy… GROSS!!! On the contrary! I am a sexy big bodied Benz weirdo, and I deserve to live out loud so that all the others know they can do the same.

I wasn’t always this loud and proud. I’ve been a fluffy girl since my legs unbowed enough for me to walk. My “confidence” was my defense mechanism that became my rebellion that became my truth. I guess the saying “Fake it ’til you make it” has some truth to it. I faked confidence for so long that I almost didn’t know that I was truly and fully in love with myself!

This site is the accompaniment to the podcast of the same name. It is also a deep dive into me. I will lay myself bare… the good the bad and the ugly so that hopefully at least one person feels even the smallest bit less alone. If you’re reading this, remember that although I may not know you personally, I love you! Since I love you… I need you. No matter your size, level of quirks or how often or little you flirt… I consider you my fellow fluffy. Let’s do this!